How To Let Go Without Giving Up
How to find peace whether your loved one is sober or not
You're exhausted.
Not just because of the drinking, the drug use, the broken promises or the constant uncertainty.
You're exhausted because it feels like their addiction is always there.
In the back of your mind.
In your relationships.
In your plans.
In your thoughts.
You know you can't control someone else.
But you don't know how to stop carrying.
You might find yourself constantly worrying, monitoring, anticipating, hoping, researching, preparing for the next crisis or wondering what you should do next.
And even when you're trying to focus on yourself...
It keeps pulling you back in.
If that sounds familiar, you're not alone.
And more importantly?
There is another way.
In this free workshop, you'll learn:
✔ How to start letting go without feeling like you're abandoning someone you love
✔ How to stop carrying the addiction while still being caring and supportive
✔ What is your responsibility—and what isn't
✔ Practical ways to spend less time consumed by their addiction and more time focused on your own wellbeing
✔ Simple strategies to help you find moments of peace, even when your loved one is still drinking, using or struggling
✔ How to start reclaiming your energy, attention and sense of self
This workshop is for you if:
🫶 You're tired of carrying the emotional weight of someone else's addiction
🫶 You feel consumed by their drinking, drug use or recovery
🫶 You know you can't change them, but don't know how to stop focusing on them
🫶 You've heard people say "just detach" but have no idea what that actually looks like in real life
🫶 You're ready to find a way forward that doesn't require your loved one to change first
This workshop is NOT about:
✘ Giving up on someone you love
✘ Leaving your relationship
✘ Pretending everything is okay
✘ Ignoring the addiction
It's about learning how to care deeply without carrying the weight of it all on your shoulders every day.
Get ready to:
✓ Feel less consumed by your loved one's addiction and clearer about where to focus your energy instead.
✓ Understand why letting go feels so difficult, and how to stop carrying responsibility for things you can't control.
✓ Learn practical ways to know how to show love and support without feeling responsible for their choices. without sacrificing your own peace and wellbeing.
✓ Stop getting pulled into the same cycle of worry, monitoring, resentment and emotional exhaustion.
✓Spend less time thinking about their addiction and more time being present in your own life, even if your loved one continues to struggle.
✓ Leave with a simple framework to help you decide what is yours to carry, what isn't, and what to do next.
When:
⏰ 60 minutes
📆 Friday 3rd July - 7am AEST Sydney/Brisbane / 9am NZST
📆 Thursday 2nd July - PDT 2pm / EDT 5pm (USA + Canada)
(Can’t make it live? Register and a replay will be sent out to you after the workshop)
I'M AMANDA.
Certified Invitation to Change Practitioner
CRAFT Informed
Drug and Alcohol Trained Facilitator
I am possibly not your typical person sitting in this seat of an Addiction Relationship Coach… I was a corporate accountant through and through, I studied 4 years at university and then went on to get my professional certifications. It was while in my corporate career and new Mum(Mom) life that I stumbled into a crazy world, where I was confused more often than not and slowly my life became unrecognisable and unmanageable. But I was ‘smart’ so surely I should be able to figure it out by myself (because I daren’t speak to anyone about it… no way) But I couldn’t figure it out… Whatever I thought would help, or what made sense to me, didn’t help, in fact it sometimes made things worse.
I was at breaking point, and so I reached out for help. And it took years of trial and error, “help” that wasn’t helpful, “help” that was judgement, “help” that felt really ick and shaming, “help” that caused more damage in my relationship… until I finally pieced together what worked and what actually helped.
I know you are a capable and lovely switched on person. I know you care deeply about those around you and I know you want life to be better than what it is now. I’ve been there, and I can help. All my program resources, tools and strategies are founded in kindness and evidenced based practices that are proven to help - I wanted that and I know you do too.
I am here because spouses and families deserve better support. Support that actually helps. And when spouses and families get better support, everyone wins.
THE TRUTH IS...
Many women believe:
"I can't feel better until they get better."
So they wait.
They wait for sobriety.
They wait for honesty.
They wait for recovery.
They wait for certainty.
They wait for things to finally settle down.
Meanwhile, their own life gets put on hold.
But what if your peace didn't have to wait for their recovery?
What if it was possible to care deeply about someone you love without carrying the weight of their addiction every single day?
Join me for this free live workshop and learn how to begin putting down some of the weight you've been carrying for far too long.