To the lovely person who is on the hamster wheel of chaos and confusion in a loved ones addiction or problematic behaviour...
I see you, I know you’ve already done the pleading for them to change, the detective work and trying harder every day to do something that ‘works’, and you are feeling exhausted, confused and stuck.
If you’re here, there are a few things I already know about you.
I know that you’re exhausted, confused and there is a low hum of anxiety most days and you’re becoming more and more worried about the future as time goes on.
You know (or you think) your loved one has a problem with a substance of behaviour and you’ve tried yelling, begging, silent treatment, negotiating and pleading for change.
You’ve gone through the pockets, phone and laptop so you can confront them with the ‘evidence’ of this problem they say they don’t have, but you only feel more and more confused.
You feel like you’ve become this crazy person who questions everything, saying things you don’t mean and getting upset over all the lies.
You’re confused with all the conflicting information and ‘advice’ out there, and friends and family mean well, but really don't understand.
It feels like you’re hiding a big secret, trying to hold your partner to the best version of themselves and get on with life, but the mental load is starting to become heavier than ever before.
I want you to know you’re not alone. I was where you are now, and I want you to know there is a better way.
I'M AMANDA.
Addiction Relationship Coach
Life Coach
Certified Invitation to Change Practitioner
Drug & Alcohol Group Facilitator
I am possibly not your typical person sitting in this seat of an addiction relationship coach… I was a corporate accountant through and through, I studied 4 years at university and then went on to get my professional certifications. It was while in my corporate career and new Mum(Mom) life that I stumbled into a crazy world, where I was confused more often than not and slowly my life became unrecognisable and unmanageable. But I was ‘smart’ so surely I should be able to figure it out by myself (because I daren’t speak to anyone about it… no way) But I couldn’t figure it out… Whatever I thought would help, or what made sense to me, didn’t help, in fact it sometimes made things worse.
I was at breaking point, and so I reached out for help. And it took years of trial and error, “help” that wasn’t helpful, “help” that was judgement, “help” that felt really ick and shaming, “help” that caused more damage in my relationship… until I finally pieced together what worked and what actually helped.
I know you are a capable and lovely switched on person. I know you care deeply about those around you and I know you want life to be better than what it is now. I’ve been there, and I can help. All my program resources, tools and strategies are founded in kindness and evidenced based practices that are proven to help - I wanted that and I know you do too.
I am here because spouses and families deserve better support. Support that actually helps. And when spouses and families get better support, everyone wins.
My lived experience give me the empathy to be here and my credentials give me the professional framework to support you to step forward.
I have tried every so-called bit of advice and “solutions” available and nothing worked… It took me reaching a really low point on the rollercoaster of my Husband’s addiction before I took (small) steps forward so that I was better for myself and better for my family.
I had reached a point where something had to change.
That’s when I took control of my life and it's direction, for me and for my family. And today?
I am present in my life, I have drowned out the chaos and noise, and can hear my own opinion and voice loud and clear.
My life now looks vastly different to how it looked back then and I am better for it.
Now it’s your turn to take back control of your life!
This is why I created
Pathway to Wellness
To take back control of your life
Create consistency for yourself and your family
Get off the Addiction Roller Coaster for good
Transform your relationship with your Loved One.
Be supported by amazing Women
Be the change you want to see
For spouses and family members ready to get off the addiction chaos rollercoaster
This is your path to clarity, confidence, and calm amidst addiction chaos, so you can get your life of peace, purpose, and empowered connection back.
It’s time to lead the way to better.
Over three months, you’ll transform how you treat yourself, your loved one and the addiction chaos
Next intake begins August 1st. Join now.
Look, I’ve been there. Right where you are.
When I eventually worked out that my loved had a problem it was really confusing, chaotic and exhausting. I spent so many years of time, energy and financial resources trying to ‘fix’ that problem, that I kept saying “no” to myself. Why? Because I was scared. Scared of what it would mean if I got support for myself, scared that it would make it ‘more’ real, that my loved one would ‘find out’ and that getting support for me made me selfish.
And take it from me - it only got worse. It took me reaching a really low point in the rollercoaster of addiction before I recalibrated and took (small) steps forward in getting myself back on tract so that I was better for myself and better for my family - armed with tools and strategies that actually worked.
I don’t want that for you.
A little something extra when you trust your gut and say yes early.
Valued at $497+ USD yours FREE when you join within 72 hours
The “Boundary Audit” Voxer Sprint
72 hours of Personalised voice coaching to resolve your most stressful boundary situation. Value $297
What to Say (When You Don’t Know What to Say)
A vault of ‘done for you’ boundary scripts Value $97
The Relapse Response Plan Toolkit
Feel prepared, not panicked on the hardest days Value $97
Pathway to Wellness
Flexible Weekly Group Coaching Calls
2x Masterclasses each Month
What to expect
Pathway to Wellness Program
Supportive Community with other amazing Women
2x private 1:1 coaching sessions with Amanda
Group Voice and Text Support in your pocket (Literally)
It’s Time to let go of:
Trying to work through this chaos and confusion in private, behind closed doors, because it doesn’t feel safe to talk to anyone.
Feeling exhausted wearing all the hats, and the extra responsibilities weighing heavily on your shoulders because your spouse isn’t doing their part.
Being at your wits end and having zero patience left for your children, and end up yelling at them most days. Letting your work or career get the bare minimum and feeling like you are constantly on the proverbial edge with constant worries about what your spouse is doing and what tonight, this weekend, the kids birthday party is going to look like and what they ‘might do’...
Holding your breath… Just waiting for something to happen, or not happen. Not planning for the future.
Feeling like a shell of yourself, your confidence is at an all-time low and small decisions feel insurmountable
Waiting and hoping… that something will change.
It’s time to decide to make a change. To do things differently so you can create a better outcome.
Change starts with you first.
Change starts now
Join the Pathway to Wellness Program
Pay in Full
USD $1,590
Save 10% investing upfront
2 x 1:1 coaching sessions with Amanda
Flexible weekly group coaching sessions support over the 3 months with 3 session times each week to choose from (mix and match)
2 x monthly masterclasses
Immediate access to the online Pathway to Wellness Program (lifetime access)
Access to a Private Group VOXER chat which gives you support and cheering on from your fellow Pathway to Wellness Women
Payment Plan
USD $590/month
3 payments
2 x 1:1 coaching sessions with Amanda
Flexible weekly group coaching sessions support over the 3 months with 3 session times each week to choose from (mix and match)
2 x monthly masterclasses
Immediate access to the online Pathway to Wellness Program (lifetime access)
Access to a Private Group VOXER chat which gives you support and cheering on from your fellow Pathway to Wellness Women
What people are saying…
“I took more actionable steps forwards in this three month program than I did in regular therapy over the last several years. The accountability and support was it for me. I am an introvert so wasn’t sure how I’d go, and I loved the small group setting. I’m so glad I did this for myself! It’s only now that I realise how stuck I was and there’s no going back to how I ‘was’ before. Cannot recommend this program more highly! Everyone in this life situation of having a partner with addiction should do this!”
Linda, United States
“I was nervous, but I felt like I could finally breathe again after our first session. There was hope! I was NOT alone in my struggle! These were real women in the the trenches with me.”
Mindy B, United States
“I remember after the very first session feeling relieved, lighter and full of hope - for myself. Amanda has such a beautiful way of looking at things. The support from the other women was amazing and so often they would share things and would literally take the words right out of my mouth. This kick started my life again and I will be forever thankful to Amanda and those beautiful Ladies who walked alongside me”
Jess, United States
“I’m so proud of myself for how far I’ve come. I’m more at peace than I’ve been in a long time and I feel like I’m finding myself again. And I’m so grateful to Amanda for the role she played in helping me get to this point!”
Luna B, United States
What’s Included?
3 month group coaching container
2 x 1:1 coaching session with Amanda
2 x Monthly Masterclass
Flexible weekly group coaching sessions with Amanda and other beautiful women (3 to choose from) Listen back to the audio replay (securely stored to protect privacy)
Online learning portal with a framework of bite sized videos and workbooks, with tools and strategies to fold into life at a pace that’s right for you (lifetime access)
In your pocket group support and coaching through VOXER (text and voice message)
After the Program, You’ll be able to:
✔️ Feel grounded in yourself—not constantly reacting to everyone else’s emotions.
✔️ Trust your own decisions again, without second-guessing or spiralling into doubt.
✔️ Wake up without anxiety, knowing you have the tools to face whatever the day brings.
✔️ Feel unshakable, even when life around you feels messy or unpredictable.
✔️ Find peace in the present, and look to the future with confidence, not fear.
✔️ Parent from a calm, centred place—no longer ruled by guilt, overwhelm or emotional fatigue.
✔️ Set boundaries that actually hold, without the guilt or constant explaining.
✔️ Stop walking on eggshells, and feel safe in your own home and your own mind.
✔️ Truly believe that better is possible—for you and your family.
✔️ Feel deeply supported, seen, and understood, without having to explain or defend your choices.
✔️ Let go of regret, knowing you gave yourself and your loved ones the best chance at real change.
Who This Is For:
✅ Spouses, partners, or family members of someone struggling with addiction who feel overwhelmed, anxious, or unsure how to help.
✅ Those ready to understand addiction through a new lens with compassion, boundaries, and clarity.
✅ Anyone tired of living in reaction to someone else’s behaviour and ready to reclaim their peace, power, and purpose.
✅ People who want to support their loved one without sacrificing their own mental health and identity in the process.
✅ People who are ready to show up for themselves in a safe space, do the inner work, and create lasting change no matter what their loved one chooses to do.
This Is Not For You If:
🚫 You're looking for a quick fix to "make" someone get sober this program is about your transformation, not controlling theirs.
🚫 You’re not ready to explore your own patterns, beliefs, and boundaries self awareness and growth are essential here.
🚫 You’re unwilling to shift the focus from “fixing them” to healing and empowering yourself.
🚫 You’re expecting to be rescued this is a space for empowerment, not dependency.
And here’s your friendly reminder (with a hug). You get to choose
You get to choose the status quo or move towards something better. You are free to continue on as things are now (and I’m guessing if you’ve read this far you are unhappy with how things are now!) Or you can do something different and come and join me for 3 months and work towards that better life you deserve.
The choice is yours, my friend.
I am ready to stand along side you and cheer you on, and give you the tools to take the first steps forwards, whatever that looks like.
If you are on the fence and don’t know if this is for you, book in a friendly chat and I can recommend the best way for us to work together that gets you living your great life - off the addiction rollercoaster.
Amanda xx
Where could you be in 3 months time?
Imagine this...
Three months from now, you’re no longer walking on eggshells. The constant confusion, guilt, and chaos that addiction brought into your world has been replaced with clarity, calm, and confidence.
You understand what’s really going on, for your loved one and for yourself. You’ve learned how to support without losing yourself, how to set boundaries that feel empowering (not cruel), and how to navigate the ups and downs without being pulled under every time.
You’ve stopped living in reaction mode and started living your life again - in a way that feels right for you.
This program is your lifeline out of the emotional overwhelm and into grounded strength. Together, we’ll help you shift from surviving to thriving so you can rise above the noise, reconnect with your inner knowing, and build a future that feels hopeful and free.
Because you deserve peace.
You deserve support.
And you deserve to live a life that feels good again, even in the midst of someone else’s struggle.
Join Pathway to wellness
STILL UNSURE?
Let’s talk.
I completely understand - investing in yourself, especially during a tough season, can feel scary. You don’t have to make this decision alone.
If you're unsure whether this is the right next step for you, let's have an honest conversation. No pressure, no sales tactics, just space to share what you're going through and explore if this support is aligned for where you're at.
✨ You deserve clarity.
✨ You deserve support.
✨ You deserve to feel grounded in your next step.
Click below to book a chat with Amanda.
She’s here to listen, guide, and help you make the best decision for you.
Bottom Line:
You’re looking for validation and certainty about what is going on in your life and what you can do about it to make it better - for you and your loved one and your family.
This isn’t a magic bullet to bring you overnight change. It’s not “we can’t control it” sit around the fire chat and focus on every single thing that is out of our control. It’s not one size catch all of you must do everything within this framework.
🙅🏻♀️ And no, this program isn’t going to tell you to ‘just focus on you’ or ‘just leave them’, or ‘detach with love’, or other one liner platitudes with no actionable steps.
🙅🏻♀️ And no, this isn’t going to be just another thing on your already full plate - I know how big life is right now and I have made this program to fold into your life.
🙅🏻♀️ And no, this isn’t going to be another program that only delivers results for a bit.. This is building foundations for life and will continue to give back long into the future for years and years to come.
But what it is…
✔️ It is a private place to get support and to breathe - that you aren’t alone here.
✔️ It is a program and framework backed in science, human psychology, research and kindness.
✔️ It is a place to be inspired about what is possible and to learn what is really going on now in your life and what you CAN actually do. Because you can do a lot here, you’ve just been told too many times you’re powerless (and guess how that shows up in your day to day behaviour?)
✔️ It’s a program to get all the tools and strategies in your pocket and the help and cheering on to fold them into your life.
✔️ This program will get you back to fully living life and lay the foundations of confidently mapping out your next smallest steps, whatever they look like, each time you need to step forwards.